It’s said that life as a couple is more pleasant than life on your own… But who can say that, when it’s also said that it’s better to be alone than badly accompanied? And without going so far as to say that everyone should enjoy being single, we mustn’t forget the negative aspects of life as a couple… When you’re in a relationship, you have to answer to your other half, you have to justify yourself on details, and in the end you’re not totally free. When you’re single, you’re free to do what you want, when you want.

It’s by adopting this state of mind that you’ll manage to live your single life well, but I’m aware that you also need a few keys to achieve this positive state of mind…

WHY DO YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT BEING SINGLE?

You’re either single against your will, or you’ve split up with someone and can’t come to terms with being single. It’s even becoming difficult for you to bear, because you want to have someone who loves you by your side. This is normal when you’re single for a long time.

And yet, sometimes it’s good to live to the full those moments when you find yourself alone. The reason why it’s essential to live your single life with enthusiasm can be summed up in 3 words: the better to bounce back. Indeed, to be attractive, it’s essential to show that you’re moving forward and, above all, to keep smiling, because there’s nothing more attractive than a person who’s happy and at ease. What’s more, there’s nothing shameful about being without a partner, and you can enjoy life even if you’re single.

What’s more, accepting that you’re single also makes it easier to get out of an obsession with love.

ACCEPTANCE IS THE KEY TO FEELING GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF!
And what happens when you feel good about yourself? Well, you’re attractive! And so you meet people…

To find or rediscover the love of a man or a woman, you have to accept the situation you’re in. Otherwise you’re in denial, and that’s the worst thing you can do, because sooner or later it’s going to work against you.

You need to bear in mind that opening your eyes to your single situation will open doors for you, so you might as well live your single life well and take advantage of new opportunities.

You’re not going to stay depressed, you’re going to go out, meet new people, register on a website to get to know strangers.

In fact, accepting that you’re not in a relationship is the very basis for creating a beautiful relationship and moving forward.

THERE’S NOTHING SHAMEFUL ABOUT BEING SINGLE!
This may surprise you, but I don’t find the title of this section at all positive! However, I’ve used it because I’m convinced it really speaks to you.

Why should you “accept your celibacy”? It sounds like you’re talking about a serious illness that’s going to have negative consequences on your health, or a trauma that’s preventing you from moving forward. You simply haven’t found someone yet!

Everyone has gone through this phase of loneliness and lack of affection, and it’s nothing serious. So you need to accept that you’re single, simply because it’s not negative and there’s nothing to be ashamed of.

YOU CAN STILL ENJOY LIFE AS A SINGLE PERSON
Is it possible to be happy even if you’re single? The answer is yes!

I know that for a love coach this may seem paradoxical, but you don’t have to be in a relationship right now and hook up with the first person who comes along. In fact, that would be a very bad idea, as you’d be making a choice by default.

So in the meantime, you’re perfectly entitled to enjoy life as a single person looking for love. But not a one-night stand, the love of a lifetime – in other words, the right person.

This is the time in your life when you can think of yourself and only yourself, before you want to be accountable. Besides, the more happiness you bring into your life, the greater your chances of finding the right person.

SEE THE GOOD SIDE OF BEING SINGLE!

Are you single and brooding because you don’t have anyone in your life? You shouldn’t be! All you need to know is how to make the most of this situation and, without talking about satisfaction, at least get some benefits out of it. There are plenty of ways to live the single life without anguish, especially if you’ve experienced disappointment or failure in love.

I’m going to mention 4 of them here, but there are many others. Feel free to share your ideas in the comments space below the article!

1/ AS SINGLES, YOU’LL BE THINKING ABOUT YOURSELF!
Remember that single, emotionally independent people are more likely to experience positive emotions throughout their lives. And the reverse is also true for married people, who have been shown to be much more negative according to some studies, particularly men (read more about this here).

What’s more, single people will find it easier to promote their personal and professional projects, as they have fewer sacrifices to make than people in couples. In this way, you’re more likely to achieve personal fulfillment than someone in a relationship.

Likewise, you’ll have much more time to devote to yourself than to your partner. Indeed, people in relationships tend to put the other person before themselves, and sometimes even let themselves go. If you’re single, you’ll have plenty of time to look after yourself.

2/ NO ONE WILL MAKE DECISIONS FOR YOU!
When you’re single, no one’s going to impose their choices on you, and no one’s going to interfere with yours!

Being in a celibate relationship means you can make your own decisions, both personally and professionally. The fact that you don’t have to answer to anyone makes your day-to-day life much easier.

3/ YOU CAN MEET NEW PEOPLE…
If you want to stop being fed up with being single, remember that this is the only way you’re going to be able to meet lots of people of the opposite sex, and enjoy their company, both in terms of going out and having a good time, and sexually through a short-lived affair.

So you can meet single people and be single yourself!

To be at your best during the seduction phase, I recommend you read these 2 articles: how to pick up a girl and how to charm a man.

4/ THE ICING ON THE CAKE: YOU’LL SLEEP BETTER!
When you’re not in a relationship, you can sleep on your own, and therefore sleep much better than if you were sharing your bed with a partner. By sleeping better, you’ll be in a good mood more often, and able to tackle your day in the best possible way.

So there are many positive aspects to being single, and to find out how to live your single life positively, What’s more, once you’ve found that special someone, you’ll have an even stronger relationship when you’re ready to move on!

LIVING WELL AS A SINGLE PERSON MEANS LIVING BETTER AS A COUPLE!

It may seem surprising, but living well as a single person means you’ll have a well-balanced love life once you’re in a relationship. Because you won’t be pairing up with the first person you meet, you won’t be trying to fill a void. As a result, your relationship will get off to a healthy start. You’ll also be removing all emotional dependence from your life.

You’ll also feel better about yourself, because you won’t be stressing over the idea of breaking up and becoming single again.

Having had a fairly long period of celibacy also enables you to appreciate the pleasures and happy moments of married life much more. You’ll want to give as well as receive, and you’ll tend to make a natural effort.

What’s more, the fact of having been deprived of a relationship for a certain length of time allows you to savor the relationship to the full, and therefore avoid unnecessary conflicts so as not to have to relive a heartbreak.

HOW TO LIVE WELL AS A SINGLE PERSON? THE 3 ESSENTIAL KEYS!

As you can see, being single isn’t all that bad! But there are a few things you need to know about living well as a single person, rather than moping around because you’re lonely.

You’re probably wondering, “How do I live as a single person? To accept being single and live it to the full, follow these 3 tips to make the most of your single life.

DEFINE YOUR PRIORITIES TO LIVE YOUR SINGLE LIFE WELL
To make the most of your single life, you need to know what you really want in life, and refocus on your priorities. For some people, being single means partying, having fun, going to discos and having lots of little love affairs, while others are more interested in getting involved in a personal project.

Likewise, you need to take the time to find the right partner, without rushing into things, so that you can enjoy being single. Make a commitment, yes, but not lightly, not with the first person you meet or with a woman just for her looks, nor for reasons such as ending your loneliness or, worse still, doing what people, especially those close to you, expect you to do.

It’s up to you to make your own choices and decide the direction your life will take! You can’t mix everything up and not know where you’re going. For example, if you succeed in finding love, you need to know whether you’re really ready to commit yourself to a relationship at the risk of sacrificing certain professional projects.

STAY TUNED FOR A GOOD SINGLE LIFE!
If you don’t want to remain single, but are forced to do so, there’s a first pitfall to avoid if you want to live your single life successfully: organizing your life as being exclusively self-centered.

In fact, don’t reserve all your time exclusively for looking after yourself, but open yourself up to others so that you can perhaps meet your soulmate or have more than one love affair.

You don’t have too many constraints and you don’t have to answer to anyone. That’s what everyone wants when they’re teenagers, but now that you’ve got it, you’re not satisfied. But be careful: too much independence kills independence!

You need to cultivate real freedom that not only makes you feel good, but also makes it possible for you to meet other people. Avoid turning in on yourself and becoming self-sufficient. You don’t want others to see you as a closed-off person who doesn’t want to talk to anyone.

On the contrary, reach out to others and open up as much as possible. To do this, you’re going to have to fight your shyness!

DON’T BE OBSESSED WITH YOUR SOULMATE, AND LIVE YOUR SINGLE LIFE TO THE FULL.
Coming to terms with being single is quite complicated for some people, who may have been single for a very long time, or even too long for them. As a result, this desire to no longer be alone translates into a need to find love in order to be in a relationship.

Your great need to be accompanied to fill a void turns into an obsession for some! You don’t have to get up every morning thinking about finding love. You need to enjoy your life, and maybe one day love will fall into your lap when you least expect it.

Living well with celibacy starts with accepting and assuming it! Putting yourself too much in a position of demand will make you a person that others won’t want. On the other hand, if you’re not necessarily in demand, people will be more likely to come to you.