This is undoubtedly one of the main questions you have. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, a man or a woman, young or old, you want to be attractive! Whether you’re single or in a relationship, a man or a woman, young or old, you want to be attractive: you want to be complimented and remembered, and whether it’s your looks or simply your presence, you want to catch the eye of those around you.

WHAT IT MEANS TO BE ATTRACTIVE
There are many ways of attracting the attention of different people you come into contact with, or of being noticed by strangers. In fact, there are two ways of being attractive.

From a physical point of view, being attractive means being satisfied with your appearance and the aura you exude. You may think that your physical appearance, i.e. your external beauty, is enough to get you noticed. Of course, there’s your look, your face, but more generally your body and the harmony of it all play a part in this side of attractiveness. These days, we tend to say that being attractive means being able to please the opposite sex. Just look at all the reality TV shows where a handsome man is looking for love to realize this. All the candidates are sure to please him physically, because they correspond to most people’s criteria of beauty, or rather their representation of it. Slim but shapely, tall, with a doll’s face for the women, and for the men, the body of a Greek statue, a dark face and bad-boy tattoos!

But being attractive doesn’t stop there, there’s also a more psychological point of view that doesn’t necessarily take physical appearance into account. I’m sure you’re fascinated by men or women who don’t appeal to you physically. Many charismatic men don’t look like the models you see in advertisements, but they’re just as attractive, if not more so. Politicians come to mind first, as they are endowed with great powers of persuasion. Many were very small in stature, but who were able to seduce large women (both in size and beauty!).

But there are also actors and actresses with a real natural magnetism. Tom Cruise has that extra “something” that literally blew away America’s most famous seducer. There are very few people who can do this. It’s not enough to have a dream physique; some things can’t be explained. In fact, many people who have an advantageous physique don’t necessarily have great self-confidence. You have to work at being attractive!

TIPS FOR FINDING YOURSELF ATTRACTIVE
If you don’t think you’re attractive, don’t be despondent, because there are ways to get to grips with this feeling. Beware: this change doesn’t happen in two days, but you can give yourself the means to quickly change the image you think you project to others. There’s a close link between self-confidence and personal development. My aim here isn’t just to help people find love but also to make you feel better about yourself, because if you do, you’ll be more attractive to others.

You can achieve great things if you’re confident, if you find yourself interesting, if you have things to say and, above all, if you’re open to others. There are many ways to be attractive, and I’d like to mention 3 of them briefly in this article.

DEVELOP YOUR PROFESSIONAL CAREER TO BE ATTRACTIVE
As I said, attractiveness isn’t just a question of looks. If you’re an ambitious, hard-working person, you’ll succeed in your professional life and therefore gain not only in charisma but also in knowledge. People will notice that you’re an important person, so you’ll naturally attract them to you.

BE SATISFIED WITH YOUR IMAGE
Please yourself to please others. To be attractive, you first have to like yourself and be in harmony with yourself. If you want to attract someone or simply feel desired, you need to be confident enough to know that someone is attracted to you. If you want to be approached by the people around you, you need to exude confidence and have a dynamic image.

BE DIFFERENT
What’s more, to be attractive you need to stand out from the crowd. A touch of originality in your look or behavior, but of course always remaining “classy”, and you’ll immediately grab all the attention and stand out in a positive way.

Best regards,