Are you looking for the ideal person to build a serious relationship with? Would you like to practice the art of seduction and are on the lookout for all the right techniques to please and charm? How can you bring out the best in your personality to seduce in just a few seconds?

Who hasn’t dreamed of having a love relationship that suits him/her and that he/she deserves? I imagine you have, so stop dreaming and live the life of your dreams!

DO YOU KNOW YOUR STRENGTHS FOR ATTRACTING LOVE?

Before you embark on the great battle of seduction, I recommend that you take stock of your strengths and weaknesses. In coaching, I realize that few people really know how to put themselves forward, let alone what their main qualities are.

And yet, it’s essential to know how to bring out the best in yourself, if only to attract attention and please, but also to avoid feeling inferior to someone else, otherwise you’ll put them on a pedestal and won’t be able to build a relationship on stable foundations.

What’s commonly known as “Emotional Dependence” comes into play as soon as you’re seduced, to put you in demand, and it’s something I obviously urge you never to do again.

I recommend that you ask yourself the right questions about your main strengths in winning the heart of a man or a woman, and that you set yourself missions to accentuate them so that they’re the only ones left to see!

There’s no need to panic about your flaws either. Everything can be made up for today, and it’s your duty to accept that you’re not perfect! In any case, you should know that perfection doesn’t exist and that people who chase after it end up wasting their time.

By being natural, you increase your chances of seducing and establishing yourself as the ideal person in the eyes of the person you want to charm.

SEDUCTION IS ABOUT DRAWING THE OTHER PERSON INTO YOUR WORLD

For some time now, I’ve been wondering about seduction and the process of falling in love. It’s thanks to this experience that I’d like to put forward the ultimate means to enable you to seduce effectively and make the person you’re courting fall in love with you.

When it comes to seduction, you tend to ask yourself “how can I meet the other person’s needs? The answer is obvious: by showing them that you’re a unique person and that you’ll be able to enjoy a stable relationship over the long term.

Your role from now on is to learn to reveal your world, what drives you on a daily basis – your passions or tastes, what makes you happy, what makes you tick…

You need to see seduction as a way of sharing your ideas, your affinities and your outlook on life. I often say that couples quickly settle into a monotonous relationship, whereas the union of two people should be based on the life projects and philosophies of each.

The more you introduce the person you’re courting to new experiences, the more you’ll get them involved in return. This will create pleasure and well-being throughout your seduction process.

If you feel that your world isn’t attractive enough, and that you should instead be content to immerse yourself in that of the person you’re courting, then I’d say that it’s essential to invest in yourself to get the life of your dreams before you think about getting “coupled”! You only become attractive when you’re able to show what a great person you are and how unique your tastes are. A little confidence is essential to charm and find love.

THE MISTAKES YOU MAKE IN YOUR SEDUCTION!

For several years now, I’ve been making a point of constantly analyzing the various mistakes that men and women make when it comes to seduction. I’ve come to realize that almost everyone makes at least 3 of them on a regular basis, and that they are the cause of break-ups after a few weeks or months.

1/ PUTTING SOMEONE ON A PEDESTAL WITHOUT GIVING IT YOUR BEST SHOT
The first mistake I frequently see, and which stems from your lack of self-confidence, is your tendency to put someone you’re attracted to on a pedestal and unconsciously devalue yourself.

You feel a certain inferiority because you only see your future partner’s qualities, and you feel you don’t deserve this happiness. And yet, it’s only by knowing your own strengths that you’ll be able to build a beautiful relationship with patience and joint investment.

2/ WANTING TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT A SEDUCTION PHASE
This is your second mistake, a sign of your impatience and desire for an ideal relationship in the short term. You’re forgetting the very principle of seduction, which consists not in flirting or sleeping with a man or a woman, but rather in getting to know this person in order to lay the foundations for a stable and serene relationship.

Before projecting yourself and asking for more from your partner, you should at least be able to answer these three questions:

• What’s your partner’s favorite color?
• What’s his favorite food?
• What are his 3 favorite songs?

The aim is simply to get to know your future partner before you start thinking about building a true love story.

3/ BEING A WAIT-AND-SEE ATTITUDE AND NOT GETTING INVOLVED IN THE RELATIONSHIP
This last mistake is the opposite of the first two: you forget to get involved in the relationship and adopt a wait-and-see attitude.

If I have one piece of advice to pass on to you from my experience, it’s quite simply to go for what you want. To do this, you’re going to have to invest a lot of time and energy in thinking through your personal situation. But as the saying goes, and it’s even truer in love, “You don’t get something for nothing”.

If you’re not able to give your time to improving your daily life and above all your relationship, to suggesting outings, to organizing surprises, to communicating about daily life… Then you won’t be able to build a serious relationship or bring out the best in your personality.

From now on, I invite you to be active in your seduction to take control of your love life.
It’s time to answer a specific question: “How do you bring out the best in yourself and your personality?