After breaking up, you want your ex to reconsider and give you another chance? How can you stay strong in front of him/her to make him/her want to come back? What are the unstoppable tricks to get your ex to observe your change and consider that you’re on the right track?

The theme of today’s article is particularly close to my heart, simply because I know that it’s one of the keys to winning back your ex.

SELF-CONFIDENCE IS THE BASIS OF A SUCCESSFUL WIN-BACK!
When you hear of a separation, you tend to feel bad and devalue yourself. You take your ex’s decision against you personally, and this is one of the reasons why you can’t communicate well with him/her. To appear strong in front of your ex, you need to work on your self-confidence.

There can be no winning back if you’re not aware of your worth, your qualities and what you can bring to others, including your ex. To work on your self-esteem, I invite you to take time to rediscover the physique you love, to take care to manage your time and your diet properly, to smile again in the company of your friends, and anything else that might be important to you. You absolutely must find yourself… In the final analysis, anything that helps you to become a better person and to see in the eyes of your loved ones that they appreciate you is essential to feeling better, and this will have repercussions on your behavior.

So before even thinking about getting your ex back, you need to focus on yourself and take action to be in tune with yourself and the image you want to project, i.e. your own value system.

Your value system is closely linked to your self-confidence and your state of mind. It’s also what allows you to look in the mirror and be proud of what you represent. I can assure you that it kills me when I accompany someone who has great qualities but who devalues himself or herself because the break-up has created a major lack of confidence in them. You need to refocus on your values and what you can bring to someone if you want to keep control of your emotions and win back your love.

HOW TO STAY STRONG IN FRONT OF YOUR EX BY TAKING YOUR TIME!
The fundamental mistake that more than 8 out of 10 people make when it comes to winning back an ex-partner is to try to absolutely show a change when the ex in question absolutely doesn’t want to see it. For example, if your previous partner is trying to run away from you by cutting off contact and you’re desperately trying to show your change by calling him or her insistently, then you’ll only be continuing to destroy the image you’re about to project.

You need to be aware that time is not necessarily on your side. On the other hand, you absolutely must learn to manage your periods of distance, and therefore your high and low points. The aim is to wait until your ex can properly assess your ability to manage your emotions, not to go against his or her wishes, and to take the time to listen to his or her needs and desires.

Winning back your ex doesn’t mean imposing your return on him or her, but rather making him or her want to take a few steps towards you, because he or she sees that you’ve changed, and realizes that a new story is possible, with a different foundation and greater complicity.

Realize immediately that time is sometimes an ally that you need to control, and that you need to modify your behavior so that you’re no longer afraid of losing your ex-partner. This is the time to manage your emotions, to be patient and never put yourself beneath your ex. Behave like this and you’ll see that he (she) will gradually come back.

THE “TEASING” TECHNIQUE TO MAKE YOUR EX WANT YOU BACK!
Do you know how to stay strong in front of your ex by adopting a method used in the movies?

The aim of the “teasing” technique to get your ex back is to make a man (or woman) want to come back to you quickly because what you’re offering is simply brilliant!

It’s a question of arousing your ex’s curiosity by telling him about your daily life and presenting it as very pleasant, before getting him to address a sentence that will leave him “wanting more”. For example:

• I had a great day yesterday and something amazing happened at work!
• I’m sure you’ve never been to this magical place, and I’m sure you’d love to.
• I’d never felt like that before, it was an indescribable emotion.

For the art of teasing to work, I recommend that you apply it face-to-face or by telephone rather than by message, and that you realize that every story is unique. You have to be careful not to overdo it. For example, if your ex is still hurting from the break-up (yes, we also suffer when we decide to break up), then you’ll need to apply this method using more basic terms.

The teasing technique is a good way of appearing strong in front of your ex, awakening his or her desires and showing him or her just how ideal you’ve become!