When a woman feels she’s falling in love, she inevitably wants it to be reciprocated, and for her feelings to evolve in the same way in her partner or in the man she’s trying to seduce. At this precise moment, doubts arise, leading to a number of questions: is he in love, how can you tell if a man is in love or how do you know if your man is in love?

Doubts sometimes get the better of you, as you’re looking for clear signs that he’s very attached and that you can therefore look forward to a relationship with peace of mind. Yet it’s a well-known fact that men and women use different ways of communicating, and therefore of showing their attachment. It’s mainly this phenomenon that throws you off guard and sometimes makes you doubt his intentions or even his sincerity…

Yet you have doubts because at times he seems very attached and at other times he seems to be pulling away, or at least not behaving the way you’d like him to. Instead of stubbornly trying to understand his attitude on your own, or getting advice from your friends who don’t have any more answers than you do, change the way you approach the concept of love relationships and the understanding of male psychology. Here’s how to find out if he’s in love with you and recognize the telltale signs.

HOW CAN YOU TELL IF HE’S IN LOVE?
As a rule, a man’s behavior is not deceptive. Of course, some men manage to hide their true nature because they’ve learned to behave without revealing too much, but for the majority, their attitudes are clear and it’s relatively easy to figure them out. It’s just a question of understanding certain signs and knowing how a man in love reacts.

WHAT ARE THE SIGNS OF A MAN IN LOVE?
To find out if a man is in love, there’s nothing better than analyzing the signs, because that’s what will enable you to form a good opinion. From experience, I’ve noticed that women are more into communication, while men are more into action. This means that if your darling doesn’t reveal his feelings to you, it’s not because he feels absolutely nothing. It’s just that, from a very early age, he’s been asked to hide his emotions. So if you want to understand him and know what signs of love he can send you, you’ll have to change the way you think about proof of love!

For example, if your boyfriend is attentive and takes care of you, asking for your opinion on important matters, it’s because he really cares about you. Don’t expect him to say “I love you” every day, or to always be in some form of demonstration, because regularity isn’t a male’s strong point, but when it’s frequent there’s no reason to panic.

A man in love wants to put you forward and make you part of his life. This means he’ll try to introduce you to his nearest and dearest as soon as he’s sure you’re the one. Whether it’s his friends or his family, he’ll do his utmost to make you feel included and appreciated. He’ll do everything he can to make you feel at ease, because that’s his way of showing you how much he cares. What’s more, when you return the favor, he’ll do the same, showing genuine consideration for your loved ones.

A man with strong feelings will also do his utmost to please you. Of course, this will depend on his means and possibilities, but as long as he can, he’ll treat you like a princess (all things being equal, of course!). He’ll know how to please you, and there’ll be no shortage of little attentions. But make sure you pay attention to the slightest gesture, because it may be a small thing for you, but it’s important to him. That’s why it’s so important to be on the same wavelength as he is, and to know how a man reacts when he’s under his spell…

HOW A MAN IN LOVE REACTS!
A man with strong feelings can have a disconcerting attitude. You often don’t recognize him from when you first met him, because attachment can cause him to change his character. In this kind of situation, emotional dependence is never far away, and although it may give you pleasure at the time to feel that he’s very much in love with you, you have to be careful that it doesn’t turn into an obsession.

For example, he can sometimes be very touchy when you tend to give him a little criticism or show him that you don’t agree with him.

A man who’s in love is also likely to be jealous, and may react quickly when someone else looks at you or talks to you. This shouldn’t be taken as a lack of confidence in you, but rather as a fear of losing you.

When you ask yourself if he’s in love with me, there are two underlying questions to which you need to find an answer: can I trust him and, above all, how do I know he won’t play games with me?

IS HE IN LOVE WITH ME OR IS HE PLAYING A GAME?
No one likes to be taken for a fool, and the worst thing about being in a relationship, or thinking of being in one, is realizing that the other person is playing games with our feelings. Your emotional past can have an impact if you’ve already suffered in the past and you’re afraid of going through it all again one day. So you put up barriers because you’re afraid of suffering again, which is understandable, especially if you have doubts. To put an end to your suspicions, there are different ways of finding out whether he’s in love or not.

WHAT A MAN IN LOVE SAYS
This is where things can get a little tricky. Your way of communicating is often diametrically opposed to that used by your boyfriend, husband or target.

You expect clear signals, while he tends to be very measured. What’s more, you often tend to reassure him when he doesn’t really seem to be doing that, which can drive you crazy with rage.

In reality, every man has his own way of functioning, behaving and revealing himself. So there’s no standard phrase he can say to you, because there are as many behaviors or words as there are men! Of course, if he says I love you, that’s already a good sign, but you also have to beware of manipulators, and this phrase alone isn’t enough.

On the other hand, as soon as he compliments you, shows you have a lot in common and asks you questions to find out more about you and your way of working, you can take it as a sign that he’s in love.

But more than words, it’s through his gestures that he’ll show you just how important you are to him.

WHAT A MAN IN LOVE DOES
Beyond the gestures synonymous with love, it’s through his behavior that he’ll show you just how much he cares about you.

For example, a man considering a serious relationship wants to spend time with his girlfriend. So he’ll try to arrange a date or show up. For example, to find out if he’s serious about you, he’ll never leave in the middle of the night while you’re sleeping next door. A man who runs away in this way shows a certain instability, and if you notice him behaving in this way, you need to be extremely wary.

If, on the other hand, he’s attached, he’ll go out of his way to show you how serious he is about something. Sometimes he’ll even rush things. Some women are afraid of this kind of behavior because they’re afraid of moving too fast. Even if this is a wise attitude, it’s important not to show him your doubts, because he might get scared. If you’re thinking, “Is he in love with me?” and he keeps telling you so, take an interest in the way he behaves, but don’t try to compare him to other men. His history and romantic past may explain his current attitude.

WHEN IS A MAN IN LOVE?
This is THE big question when a woman starts to get attached: when does a man fall in love?
Here again, as you can imagine, there are no precise rules. Sometimes it takes a few days for the quickest to fall in love, while for others it can take several months. What’s certain, however, is that a man starts to fall in love when he begins to see you differently, and starts to see himself with you.

From the moment he starts making plans, including you in his life in a concrete way and looking to the future alongside you, there’s no need to ask yourself whether he’s really in love with me. Things are clear at this stage: if he behaves like this, he’s crazy about you! But before you get to that point, you should know that your partner won’t always be very direct…

IS AN INTERESTED MAN ALWAYS DIRECT?
Even if this is less and less the case, men still need to take charge of the seduction phase, and during this phase a man should rarely reveal himself too soon, as this risks causing a rift. Men are well aware of this, and it can be detrimental to the beginning of a relationship, as they will always remain on the defensive and find it hard to be direct and reveal themselves.

HOW CAN YOU TELL IF A MAN IS IN LOVE?
The easiest way to recognize a man in love is to confess his feelings directly, but this is rarely the case, because when a man reveals himself too directly, women tend to flee! So they’ve learned their lesson and behave less frankly. This is another reason why it’s hard to tell a man in love from a man who’s just having fun.

As a result, he’ll rarely be direct with you, but he may still drop a few hints. It’s up to you to be receptive at this point, letting him know that you also need to be reassured or to hear sweet words coming out of his mouth.

You can also take matters into your own hands by explaining that you’d like to be reassured of his intentions. If he persists in remaining silent, then you’ll have to be wary, just as you would be if you needed tons of reassurance! On the other hand, if he makes an effort and occasionally lets go and tells you how he feels, that’s a good sign…

BEING IN LOVE SYMPTOMS!
Are there any symptoms that prove he’s in love or not? Here again, the answer is difficult to give, as it depends on each individual. However, there are 3 clear signs.

If your sweetheart or the one you’re lusting after looks at you with passion, and not just when you’re under the comforter, then you can consider that his or her attachment is strong.

If, on top of that, he’s trying to make you happy with little gifts or attentions, and systematically behaves with the aim of pleasing you, satisfying you or taking your needs into account, then there’s no need to wonder whether he loves me! This is obviously the case.

Finally, to conclude on the signs that show whether he’s in love or not, you absolutely must take into account the way he replies to your messages, i.e. the words he’ll use, but also the speed with which he’ll write to you, especially at the very beginning of a relationship. If you see that he’s taking his time and taking several hours, or even answering you the next day or over the weekend, that’s not a very good sign… A man with feelings can’t help but converse with you, so he won’t delay your discussions.

Best regards.