At first sight, seduction may seem difficult because you’re dependent on the reaction of someone you don’t know at all. The fear of failure in love also plays a role, as it makes you ask yourself all kinds of questions.

While for some it seems like child’s play, for you it’s a real obstacle course! Do you feel sick to your stomach, sweating at the very thought of approaching the one who’s caught your eye? But your coach has the solutions for you!

You won’t be alone any longer if you understand the causes of this fear and have all the keys you need to get out of the situation. In this article, discover the notion of fear in seduction and the best ways to combat this feeling linked to failure in love.

WHAT IS SEDUCTION DESPITE THE FEAR OF ROMANTIC FAILURE?
Seduction is the process of creating attraction, attraction and sometimes even feelings of love in the space of a few minutes. When it comes to seduction, there can only be two people involved. One of them will want to arouse the other’s attraction so that he/she can get what he/she wants – a kiss, sexual intercourse or the beginning of a long and beautiful love story. To achieve this, you need to know how to seduce despite the fear of failure.

So, the question I’m often asked is: what can you do when you don’t naturally have these “assets”?
Seducing despite fear means overcoming the obstacles that prevent you from being a seducer. From what I’ve seen, the main obstacle is the fear of failure in love. In other words, for the majority of people looking to seduce, the most important fear is that “he won’t like me”, without even having bothered to utter a single word.

To avoid this kind of situation, you need to be aware of your faults, so that you can better emphasize your qualities. Using seduction even when you’re apprehensive about it will help you in all areas of your life, even those not linked to your love life.

WHY BE AFRAID OF SEDUCTION?
There are two main reasons why the fear of failure in love makes you anxious:

LACK OF SELF-CONFIDENCE
If you don’t believe in your abilities, it’s normal that approaching a stranger scares you. There are many reasons for this, but there’s always a solution. If you don’t like the way you look, for example, you should opt for a makeover with a professional agency. If you don’t like your body, you should take up regular physical activity.

The very fact that you’ve decided to make these changes will have an impact on your self-confidence. Society tells us that you have to look like the girls in the magazines or Hollywood actors to seduce, but that’s not true. You can seduce just the way you are if you show your little “extra”.

PAINFUL PAST
A love story that ended in a painful break-up and your vision of love, and therefore of seduction, takes a hit. After such an episode, it’s logical to be afraid of failure in love. So it’s perfectly understandable that you should be apprehensive about approaching the person you like and contemplating a relationship with him/her when your heart is just recovering from a break-up. To seduce again, you need to overcome your past history and move on.

It’s often a good idea to take a short break and not jump right back in with another person, even if you really like them, to avoid a relationship transfer. You’ll be with a new partner, and your previous relationship will have nothing to do with the one you’re about to start. But you shouldn’t wait too long to start looking for love either, because it could be the person you meet every day on your way to buy bread who will be the real love of your life. So don’t let this opportunity pass you by.

FIGHTING THIS FEAR
To combat the fear of failure in love, the first thing to do is to seduce yourself! This may seem surprising, but it’s the basis of both seduction and married life. You have to like yourself, and be satisfied with the image you project to others. It’s inconceivable to seduce if you don’t find yourself attractive. To improve your image and therefore your seduction game.

WORK ON YOUR LOOK
First of all, you need to work on your look. Adopt a style of dress that’s both fashionable and enhances your assets, but also hides any flaws you may have. This will give you greater self-confidence in your abilities, as sending out an image of yourself that you like is a necessity in seduction.

START BY SOCIALIZING
To get off to a smooth start in seduction and overcome the fear of failure in love, it’s best to take things one step at a time. To begin with, you need to avoid thinking about seduction at all costs, but rather see it as a game. The aim is to be able to start a conversation easily with strangers, whether male or female.

That’s how you’ll find it easier to talk to people you’re likely to be attracted to. In other words, before you can become the king or queen of seduction, you need to gain experience! Perfect your approach and your speech before throwing yourself headlong into a relationship that may not last. That way, on “D-Day”, when you’ve really found the right person, you won’t be afraid of romantic failure, because you’ll be truly sure of yourself and your ability to seduce.

Best regards.