You’ve come up with lots of good reasons for living with a roommate: to cut costs, to have a bigger apartment, to meet new people, to party in a spirit of conviviality rather than being alone at home every night…

What you hadn’t thought about was the awkward moment when you’d have to take a girl home. And now you’re not quite sure how you’re going to get enough intimacy with this woman without disturbing your roommates too much.

But don’t panic! In this article, I’ll show you how to make sure that everything goes smoothly, and how to easily reconcile your roommate’s life with that of a young seducer.

HOW DO YOU RECONCILE SEDUCTION AND ROOMMATE LIVING?
Don’t kid yourself.

The easiest way to bring the girls you want home with you without any constraints is to have your own apartment. Or go to the girl’s place.

If you live with several people, it all depends on the configuration of your apartment-share and the state of mind of your roomate(s).

Let’s start with the simplest scenario.

CASE 1: YOU HAVE A SEPARATE ROOM IN THE SHARED APARTMENT
Let’s say you’re in an apartment-share where there’s a living room and each roomate has his/her own bedroom.

Your goal isn’t to spend a fun evening with this girl and your roommates, drinking, chatting and playing board games.

Your goal is to sleep with this girl in your room.

Let’s imagine the scene. You arrive home with a woman.

Your roommates don’t know, and they’re in the living room sipping a beer in front of Netflix or watching a game.

You’re wondering what to do, and you may have some questions.

“Won’t she think it’s weird if we isolate ourselves right in my room and don’t spend a little time with my roommates?”

“Won’t she feel more comfortable about sleeping with me if she gets to know the people I share my daily life with?”

“Won’t my roommates think I’m some weirdo who ignores them to go isolate himself in his room and sleep with a stranger?”

Your first instinct will probably be to introduce her and settle down with them on the sofa to spend the evening, telling yourself that you’ll go to your room with the girl when everyone else goes to bed.

But is this really the right decision?

SPEND THE EVENING WITH THIS WOMAN AND YOUR ROOMMATES?
No !

Why isn’t this a good idea?

When she arrives, your roomates are strangers to her (especially if you haven’t talked about it beforehand…).

She doesn’t care what they think of her.

She’s there for you and to spend time with you.

So, if you’re settling in to spend the evening with your roommates rather than quickly heading for your room, that poses two problems.

First, this woman is just like you. Even if she suspects it, she still doesn’t really know what’s going to happen between you.

So, if you start by introducing her to your roommates and linger in front of the TV, she may think you’re not that interested in her and that you’ve put her in the friendzone.

The second problem is that if she spends a little time with them and gets to know them even a little, she’ll be more sensitive to their looks.

And that’s when she’ll start to wonder, and maybe even be afraid of being judged.

And she’ll decide not to sleep with you the first time you bring her home.

So, when you arrive at your home with a woman to sleep with, the best thing to do is to quickly greet your roommates, but don’t linger and isolate yourself in your room with the woman you covet.

It’s possible not even to greet your roommate(s) and invite the girl directly into the bedroom. If it’s a one-night stand, don’t waste your time with formalities…)

WHAT IF SHE ASKS TO MEET YOUR ROOMMATES?
Just imagine.

You walk home with her, quickly greet your roommates and she slips into your ear:

“hey, they seem cool. Shall we have a drink with them?”

Well, that’s good news for you.

Because she realizes that you’re hanging out with nice-looking people.

As for the rest, don’t worry about it.

Continue on your way to the bedroom and tell her you’d rather spend some time alone with her first, and then go back and spend some time with the others.

Just remember.

If she starts swapping with them, she’ll start wondering what they’ll think of her.

So go back to your room and close the door.

Once you’re in the privacy of your bedroom, all you have to do is turn up the heat, set up the kino escalation and have sex with her.

If she’s followed you home, you shouldn’t have too much trouble closing the deal.

CASE N°2: YOU DON’T HAVE A SEPARATE BEDROOM OR YOU SLEEP IN THE LIVING ROOM
It’s even more important to have an open-minded roommate with whom you get on well.

If you don’t, you can quickly find yourself stuck.

Imagine the discussion:

“Hi, I’m seeing a girl tonight. If it goes well, is it possible to leave me alone with her in the apartment until midnight?”

And then you’re completely dependent on her goodwill.

He could simply refuse for any number of good reasons:

“Sorry man, not tonight, I really need to rest.”
“No, I’ve got a big meeting to prepare for tomorrow and I’m really busy. Try to see her another day.”
“No, try to go somewhere else to close your little deal”.

Unfortunately, when faced with someone who reacts like this, there’s not much you can do.

If your roommate really isn’t of good character, the best advice is to change roommates.

It’s best if your roommate is also your wingman.

Someone who’s a bit like you, who’s eager to seduce and who may even prove invaluable in helping you get ahead when the time comes.

WHAT IF YOUR ROOMATE DOESN’T UNDERSTAND THAT YOU WANT TO BE ALONE WITH THIS WOMAN?
Then there’s another scenario.

That of the roommate who’s rather good-natured, but who doesn’t realize that he’s disturbing you at the M moment.

I’ll paint the picture for you.

You arrive at the apartment with a girl you’d like to sleep with.

You say hi and he just stands there, quietly going about his evening, playing games , watching netflix or reading his book.

And you find yourself in a very awkward situation.

In front of the girl, you can’t say: “Well, listen, we’re going to you know so you’ll have to go out for 2 hours, please.”

So you try to make her understand things subtly:

“Hey, weren’t you supposed to go out tonight?”

And then he looks at you with big round eyes, completely taken aback.

The best thing to do in this case is to warn him in advance.

Simply explain that you’re trying to seduce a girl at the moment.

And that if you go home with her, it would be cool if he could let you have the apartment for a few hours.

And, a little tip, if you arrive with a girl by surprise: work out a password with your roommate.

For example, “alligator”.

Make a deal with him. If you say the word “alligator” in a sentence when there’s a woman in the room, it means you need to be alone until midnight.

This should help you avoid misunderstandings as much as possible.

HOW CAN YOU TURN YOUR ROOMMATE INTO AN ALLY?
Or at least make sure he never gets in your way.

A few basic rules.

For everything to run smoothly, the simplest rules of courtesy apply.

Remember that you’re not alone, and that you’re sharing the apartment.

So try not to disrupt your roommate’s schedule too much.

For example, if you know he’s at the gym on Thursday night and going out on Saturday night, try to schedule your dates around these times as much as possible, so as not to disturb him too much.

And give him an hour to come home. Midnight seems reasonable to me, but work it out between adults.

It’s easy enough to go out and occupy yourself in one way or another until midnight, but if you ask him to stay out all night, it can quickly become more complicated.

What’s more, if he sees that you’re really trying to make life easier for him, he’ll probably be cooler with you leaving the apartment even when he doesn’t particularly have any outings planned.

And don’t forget to warn him that you’ll be bringing a woman home while he’s away.

You’re never safe from a mishap and your roommate turning up just as you’re undressing her.

Finally, of course, offer her the same.

If you ask your roommate to give you the space every 4th morning, he’s bound to get bored.

So be sure to tell him you’ll do the same for him when he needs it.

And if he doesn’t do well with women, manage to offer him something nice in return from time to time: buy him a meal, pay for rounds, lend him your car, do his homework, his laundry, do the dishes every time…

There’s got to be something you can do to help her out too.

And try not to do it too often.

THE 2 ADVANTAGES OF SHARING AN APARTMENT WHEN YOU’RE BRINGING A WOMAN HOME
Why does being a roommate make it easier for you to sleep with a woman?

The first reason is simple.

When you have your own apartment and you bring a woman home, you start by getting settled in the living room.

And sometimes, apprentice seducers have trouble making the transition from the living room to the bedroom.

But when you’ve got a roomate, you’ve got the perfect reason to take the girl straight to your bedroom.

The second reason is that she’ll trust you more.

If you have roommates, chances are you’re not a serial killer.

It’s something you don’t really think about, but girls always do.

“What if I run into a maniac?”

Be sure of one thing.

When you see a girl on a first date, there’s at least one of her girlfriends who knows where you are and knows your name and social media profile by heart.

And who’s ready to send in the cavalry at the slightest sign.

If you have roommates, the girl will probably feel more reassured.

She’ll relax and be more willing to sleep with you and let loose.

Beware, however, of those who make themselves heard when they make love… In a roommate situation, they’ll be forced to hold back, and it’ll frustrate them not to be able to give their voice…)

The first important tip: be clear from the outset with your roommates. The choice of roommate or roommates is the most important factor, because if they don’t play on your team, it’s going to complicate your life.

There are rules to be respected.

Cleanliness at all times.
Good smells are mandatory.
Fridge always clean, dishes always clean, toilet and shower always clean.

Secondly, from a logistical point of view: when you know you’re bringing a girl home, it’s already on the schedule, the roommate(s) know it, they need to be warned in advance, even by a simple text message.

Just before the girl arrives, the roommates receive a text message saying: “ETA 20 minutes, I need the living room for 20-25 minutes”.

Then, from the living room, you have to move into your room with the girl to give your roommate(s) back their freedom to use the living room.

There’s nothing like time constraints to help you learn how to flirt better!

If your roommates are stupid and childish, the situation won’t last, it won’t be tenable, it’ll be too complicated to sleep with a girl in your roommate and you’ll have to play your games outside.