Sometimes it only takes one sentence to turn a simple discussion into a sexual exchange with a woman.

Yet many would-be seducers have great difficulty sexualizing conversation, and get bogged down in small talk that gets them nowhere.

If this is the case for you, I’ve put together 5 examples of how to effectively sexualize your conversations with a woman in all situations and finally win her over.

HERE’S WHY YOU NEED TO SEXUALIZE THE CONVERSATION
Because it’s an essential step if you want to get serious with a woman.

You may have all the most attractive qualities in the world, but if you don’t introduce the idea that you could sleep together, nothing will happen.

So, throughout your interaction, you need to create more and more sexual tension between you and the woman you fancy.

What you need to understand is that sexualization isn’t just a stage in the seduction process. It’s the common thread.

It’s what attracts a woman and makes her want to sleep with you or get into a relationship with you.

Something you can do at any time.

Whether it’s when you’ve just met her, on a first date, at home when you’re sleeping with her for the first time, between 2 dates or simply to make her want to see you again via messages.

However, to sexualize properly, there are a few tips to follow. Don’t do it any old how, any old when.

WHEN IS A GOOD TIME TO START SEXUALIZING?
Many readers wonder if there’s a right time to start sexualizing.

Let’s be clear, the answer is no. There is no right time.

But you should know something very important.

The only condition before you start sexualizing is to have first shown the woman you like that you possess the characteristics of an attractive man.

To put it plainly, don’t try to move too fast. If you go in cold without showing her a minimum of who you are, you run the risk of hitting a brick wall.

It’s up to you to create an atmosphere charged with desire and electricity. It’s up to you to make her feel unique. In a bubble where it’s just you and her.

For the rest, sexualization is everywhere and all the time.

Let’s find out how.

Can you have a sexual conversation with a woman you’re seeing for the first time?
To begin with, remember that when you approach a woman for the first time, you need to show her that you possess the characteristics of an attractive man, i.e. :

Self-confidence
Charisma
A sense of humor
The power to make her feel even more feminine

If you want to go further, it’s essential that a woman feels sexually attracted to you before you start talking to her about sex.

If you start sexualizing the conversation when you haven’t yet made her feel strongly interested in you, she’s likely to run away from you.

And she’ll think you’re one of those predators who’s only interested in getting her into bed.

If you feel that she’s receptive to your conversation and interested in you, it’s time to give your exchange a more sexual twist.

But not before.

Many apprentice seducers fail, because they do things out of order.

They start talking about sex when they haven’t bothered to get to know the girl in front of them and arouse her interest.

But once they’ve done that, it’s time to take things a step further and turn a harmless conversation into a conversation about sex.

One of the best ways to sexualize a conversation with a stranger is to make it clear that you like her and that you’re there to seduce her.

Don’t beat around the bush.

The idea is to make your intentions honest and transparent.

You’re not here to make small talk or to become her friend. And she needs to understand that.

So if you’re really feeling short-changed, just say something like :

“Look, I felt drawn to you right away. I like you.”

Another way to sexualize the conversation is to say:

“Um, you seem like a really nice person, but I feel this little badgirl side to you. I’m sure you’ll break my heart again.”

By using this phrase, you’re sending her the message that she’s a nice girl, that you respect her, but that she’s not a goody-goody either.

In other words, she won’t feel judged and should allow herself to get involved and let loose more.

On the face of it, this is the kind of attitude that can score you points.

Not only will she feel attracted to you, but she’ll also realize that you’re confident enough to give your exchange a more sexual twist.

SEXUALIZING THE CONVERSATION ON A DATE
During a date, it’s absolutely essential to sexualize the conversation. If you don’t, you’re likely to end up in the friendzone in the medium term.

Many guys make the mistake of being too nice.

They go out of their way to be gallant, polite and behave like perfect gentlemen to impress the woman they’re desperate to seduce.

There’s nothing wrong with being nice. Quite the contrary, in fact.

But remember, for a woman to want to sleep with you, you need to create sexual tension between you.

So if things are going well and you feel she’s receptive, don’t hesitate to sexualize the conversation:

“No, but stop teasing me like that. I know you’re having a good time, but there’s no need to insist! I’m not going to sleep with you tonight. I’m not an easy man. You’re going to have to show me more than that before I’ll let myself.”

Almost every time, the girl will start laughing, and then protest in an attempt to reposition herself as the challenge:

“No, no, no! Let’s do it again. I’ve never had sex on the first date. So you’re the one who’s going to have to do more to seduce me.”

But deep down, a lot of women will feel seduced by a man who’s confident and socially intelligent enough to shake up the codes of seduction as she’s used to them.

By sexualizing the conversation in this way, you reverse the roles and instantly become the prize.

You become a challenge for her.

You’re no longer one of those guys who go out of their way every day to have sex with her.

On the contrary, she understands that it’s up to her to make the effort so that you choose her over someone else.

A woman wants a challenge. Many are fed up with men who chase them just to sleep with them.

They tell themselves they’re only looking at their looks. But why? Because they’re putting a girl on a pedestal who hasn’t earned it.

And who also tells herself, in the end, that you only want her for her beautiful buttocks.

If you don’t position yourself as a challenge, even if your intentions are sincere, a woman will undoubtedly think that you’re only interested in her looks and that you’re not really interested in her as a person.

SEXUALIZING THE MOMENT YOU TAKE A WOMAN HOME
This is something you’ve probably already done.

You had a date with a girl and things went pretty well.

You’ve managed to get her to go home with you on some pretext (to see your cat/dog for example)

So you both end up sitting on the sofa.

You both know you’re there to make things happen and probably sleep together.

Except you don’t know how to go about it. You don’t dare do anything and you’ve reached a plateau.

It’s time to be strong and take matters into your own hands with a sexual conversation.

If you like to be direct, you can play it straight.

Take her by the hand and pull her against you:

“Come on, I want to kiss you terribly right now.”

If she doesn’t push you away, all the work is done. Now all you have to do is kiss her.

If you feel she’s not ready yet, you can initiate the kino by offering her a shoulder massage to gently raise the temperature.

You can also hold her on your lap.

After that, it’s all the same. The main thing is done.

Look into her eyes and kiss her.

If she’s gone up to your place, it’s because she’s ready for something to happen, and you need to take action.

And if you really do get turned down, don’t insist. Ever.

SEXUALIZING THE CONVERSATION TO MAINTAIN SEXUAL TENSION BETWEEN 2 DATES
Other times, your date has gone well, but you haven’t been able to get her home to sleep with you.

Either because it was too soon, or because the circumstances weren’t right.

But you plan to see her again soon.

Here’s the message you can write her:

“You were so sexy when I saw you. In fact, I couldn’t take my eyes off your thighs. I think you have perfect curves.”

And if you want to add a little push & pull, add at the end, “too bad…” Complete with an element of your choice.

It should make her smile, but also turn her on to know you see her that way.

The more you can make a woman feel beautiful in your company, the easier it will be to sexualize your relationship.

SEXUALIZING THE CONVERSATION TO MAKE HER WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN
Here’s another scenario. You’ve met this girl, nothing’s happened and you’ve said goodbye without making any specific plans for new dates.

Nothing’s lost. But you have to make her want to see you again so that there’s a 2nd and then a 3rd date.

Remember something very important.

What makes a woman invest in you is the feeling of anticipation.

She’s excited about meeting you, but at this stage, she has no idea how things might turn out.

So she’ll work out several scenarios in her mind.

She’ll imagine certain situations. How you’re going to kiss her and how you’re going to get her into bed with you.

And she’ll anticipate pleasant emotions. Emotions she feels because of you.

So you can play with that and make her anticipate lots of positive emotions from the messages you’re going to send her.

Give her a glimpse of the evening you’ve planned for her.

Set up your date with her and end your exchange with a message like “I’m going to take such good care of you tonight”.

She’ll start wondering how things are going to work out. And she’ll be excited to see you again.

CONCLUSION
If you sexualize your exchanges with women to turn a harmless conversation into a sexual one, you’ll create an atmosphere that builds sexual tension.

And if you generate sexual tension, you’ll make women want to sleep with you!

This can be done through sexualization, i.e. the words you use.

But it can also be achieved through certain character traits such as charisma, virility or your body language.

That’s why sexualization isn’t a box to tick in the seduction process, but something you need to do throughout your interaction with the girl you want to seduce.

And even for years to come, once you’re in a relationship.

So the more seductive you are, the easier it will be to sexualize your exchanges and make women want to sleep with you.

Best wishes!