I’m sure you’ve come home from a date with a girl. You were sitting opposite her and you wanted to try something, but you weren’t sure how to go about it. As a result, nothing happened.

Today, with this ultimate guide to kino, I’m going to try and answer all the questions you might have.

Why, where, when and how to touch her to get closer to her, to be able to kiss her and make her want to go further with you.

It’s over here!

Kino: the crucial importance of touching a woman to seduce her

Most would-be seducers simply don’t understand why it’s imperative to touch a woman in order to seduce her.

The reason is simple. Touching a woman establishes a relationship of trust, complicity and closeness. And the closer you are to her, the more likely you are to win her over.

And above all, physical contact allows you to be perceived as a sexual man.

You’ve probably already seen men who don’t dare touch women.

As if they were still holding back.

As a result, everyone feels uncomfortable and they end up mired in the abyssal depths of the friendzone.

I understand that you can be intimidated because you’re not sure when and how to touch a woman.

You’re afraid of doing the wrong thing and you tell yourself that if you touch her in the wrong place or for too long, you’ll come across as a weirdo. And you’ll lose all your chances of seducing her.

That’s exactly why it’s so important to learn how to touch a woman properly.

If you know how to set up a kino escalation, i.e. have more and more intense and frequent physical contact with her, women will feel more comfortable with you.

They’ll let go more in your presence, and you’ll find it easier to make them want to get to know you and go further with you.

Once you know exactly when and how to touch a woman, you’ll find that you’ll be much more successful with the ladies.

You’ll be able to sleep with more women much more quickly. And you’ll get a lot less rejection.

Touching a woman: setting up the kino escalation

Depending on your relationship with a woman, you won’t touch her in the same way.

You’re not going to touch a girl you’ve just met in the same way as a girl you’re about to close the deal with.

The evolution of kinos should take place gradually over time.

In other words, you’re going to start with harmless physical contact at the beginning of your relationship and progress to increasingly intimate contact as you get closer.

There are 3 stages to kino escalation.

STEP 1: TOUCH HER TO BUILD HER CONFIDENCE IN THE FIRST FEW MINUTES
These are the first contacts that will help you create comfort.

You can start using them as soon as you meet her.

At this stage, she doesn’t really know who she’s dealing with, and she’s still building up her first impressions of you.

Here are a few examples:

If you’re in the middle of a conversation, take the opportunity to touch her arm or shoulder. It’s also a way of emphasizing what you’re saying.
On the other hand, don’t do this if you’re approaching her when you don’t know her at all and you’re trying to get her attention.

It’s very intrusive and she’s likely to push you away.

Give her a peck on the cheek.
Compliment her on an accessory or item of clothing and take the opportunity to touch her.
For example, a necklace or a watch. But make sure you touch her lightly.

For starters, these are contacts that are innocent and easy to set up.

But they’re important, because when you start touching her, you’re breaking down the first barriers.

From then on, you’re no longer just a stranger talking to her on the street.

Now that you know how to get her to trust you, let’s move on to step 2.

In other words, how to touch her to attract her to you and seduce her.

The aim is to get her closer to you. Let her see you as someone special. Someone more intimate than just a friend or work colleague.

STEP 2: TOUCH HER TO SEDUCE HER AND GET CLOSER AND CLOSER TO HER.
These are the touches that will spark the idea in her mind that something sexual could potentially happen between you.

This is the moment when you need to avoid falling into the friendzone and being perceived as just a friend.

Here are a few examples:

Compare the size of your hands.
Then you have a perfect excuse to take her hand in yours.

Take her pulse.
For example, you can start teasing her by telling her she looks nervous and that you’re going to check her heart rate.

If she’s an athlete, you can also challenge her by telling her you’re sure your heart is more efficient than hers.

Ask her to show you her muscles.
A little game to provoke her: tell her she’s not strong and has cottage cheese in her arms.

She’s bound to protest one way or another.

Then ask her to show her muscles and touch her biceps. And there you have it.

Pretend to fight.
For any reason. This will build sexual tension between you.

Dance with her.
Dancing is probably the best way to touch a girl.

You can grab her hands, her hips, touch her belly and her legs.

You can also gauge her interest in you by observing whether or not she sticks close to you.

Offer to warm her hands during the winter.
It’s the perfect kino for a winter date.

Her hands are cold and she’s forgotten her gloves?

Offer to warm her up by taking her hands in yours.

If she accepts and lets you take her hands, there’s a good chance you’ll be able to go further.

In any case, it’s a clear green light to continue the kino escalation.

Walk arm-in-arm down the street or around her shoulders if you can.
Sneak an arm around her waist as you walk through a door or up the first step of an escalator.
Touch her hair.
Tell her you’d like to know how she looks with her hair up. And make it happen.

“Did you like Dragon Ball Z? Wait, don’t move, I’ll turn you into a superwarrior.”

Tap her hand.
If she tries to tease or provoke you, tap the top of her hand with 2 fingers as if you were punishing a child.

“You’re such a naughty girl! So much for your punishment! You’re lucky, in our parents’ day, we used to go at it with an iron ruler.”

Ask her to take a selfie together.
Tease her until she pretends to hit you.
For example, steal her cell phone and pretend not to give it back until she starts chasing you.

Get her to jump on you so you can get it back.

Pretend to yawn and fall asleep on her shoulder.
Have your legs touch when you sit next to her.
Compliment her on her perfume and bury your nose in her neck.
Tell her there’s something on her face and pretend to take it off.
This phase is crucial in the seduction process.

And it’s precisely here that most apprentice seducers fail and can end up in the friendzone. Because they don’t act.

Stay tuned and observe the girl’s reactions.

You really need to make physical contact seem natural and gradually increase in intensity.

If all goes well, you should be able to kiss her during this stage.

If she’s receptive, you’ll be able to move on to the physical sexual contact that will lead her straight to your bed.

STEP 3: TOUCH HER TO MAKE HER WANT TO SLEEP WITH YOU
Only move on to this step when you’ve really got close to the girl you’re after and are on the verge of closing the deal.

A priori, by this time you’ve already kissed her and all that’s left is to have sex with her.

Any physical contact you have with her at this point is practically foreplay.

Kiss her neck or chest.
Start by kissing her normally, then move down to her neck and then to her breasts.

Variation: you can also GENTLY kiss or nibble her earlobe.

Give her a massage. Start with her shoulders through her clothes. Or the whole body if she feels like it.

Put her up against the wall
You’re about to make love to her.

Now’s the time to show your bestiality if you feel she’s receptive.

Carry her.
From the sofa to your bed.

Throw her on the bed.
All you have to do is make love to her for the rest of the night.

Kino escalation: 2 things to remember

If I had to sum up everything you need to know about kinos, I’d give you these 2 tips:

1/ PROGRESS IN THE SEDUCTION PROCESS
If she seems to enjoy physical contact, keep touching her.

On the other hand, if you feel that she’s not receptive, don’t insist and go back to less sexual contact.

The rule with physical contact is that it should be increasingly intense and frequent, but fluid. As if they were unnoticeable.

So, if you feel you’re getting stuck, back off and slow down.

2/ START TOUCHING HER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.
As I wrote at the start of this article, you need to make physical contact with her within the first few minutes to build up her confidence.

The sooner you start touching her, the more comfortable she’ll be with being in physical contact with you.

She’ll see that this is the way you operate.

On the other hand, if you don’t touch her, you’re going to find it hard to sexualize your interaction with her, and you risk tipping over into the friendzone.

And, if you start touching her afterwards, she’ll realize there’s something fishy going on.

Kino: 3 things to avoid when touching a woman

1/ AVOID OVERDOING IT
When you discover that you have to touch a woman to seduce her, you suddenly have a tendency to overdo it.

You never used to touch women, and now you want to touch them all the time.

The truth is, you need to learn how to dose your touch.

There’s nothing heavier on a woman than a man who’s always touching her.

2/ DON’T TOUCH HER FOR TOO LONG
This is another mistake that beginners often make.

If you touch her for too long, she’ll feel uncomfortable and realize that you’re not natural and that you’re looking for something.

3/ DON’T TOUCH HER TOO OFTEN.
Finally, avoid touching her too often. The important thing is to touch her at the right moment.

As always, choose quality over quantity.

Conclusion

Now you have all the information you need to know where, when and how to touch a woman in order to seduce her.

If you use them effectively, you’ll make progress in seduction and you’ll see that the time between your first meeting and the moment when you can sleep with her will start to get shorter and shorter.

Now’s the time to start putting these little exercises into practice on a daily basis.

Best wishes!